Gentlemen, I give you two simple facts;

1 There are no magic pick up lines to get women to yell, "Take me to bed now!".

2. Without the Attitude - Methods and Systems are usuless.

The only thing that does work is being the type of Man women are attracted to. If you're that guy - then it doesn't matter what you say or what "manual" you follow - because everything will work.

And without the attitude, Nothing will work. 

 The Wrong Approach

There’s a million different “pick up chicks” manuals out there. Am I right? Yeah, I am. I know because I’ve seen and tried them all. And I mean ALL of them.

And you know what I found? Probably the same thing you did: They aren’t worth a shit.

I’ll tell you why.

First – all these methods and systems are approaching the Pick Up from the WRONG angle.

They’re all geared toward impressing women.

And while that may sound like a good strategy, it’s probably the worst thing you can ever try to do. More on that in a minute.

Second – If you don’t have the proper attitude and mindset, it doesn’t matter what you do – it’ll never work.

That’s right. All of the greatest pick up lines and techniques in the world aren’t worth squat if you don’t have the key ingredient that attracts women.

And what is that? I’m glad you asked.

It’s having the Attitude. It’s all about being a Man.

Women are attracted to men, plain and simple. And if you don’t know what a man is, you’ll spend countless frustrating hours trying all kinds of lines, techniques and systems that will bore women to tears and leave you with your manhood in your hand at the end of the night.

More on Impressing Women

Trying to impress a woman is nothing compared to having her be attracted to you.

Attraction is an instinct that women feel – and feelings are everything to a woman. When you try to impress her, you are basically trying to convince her to feel a certain way about you. You are using logic to try and win over an emotional creature.

 Big mistake. It’ll never work.

The dirty little secret is that women don’t want their ass kissed, they don’t want to have to make decisions, and they don’t want some knucklehead trying to be their friend and convincing them what a great guy he is. Women know right away if they are going to sleep with you, and no amount of show-boating and convincing is going to tell them otherwise.

Ask any woman why they fall for a man or sleep with him. There’s all kinds of bullshit answers, but they’ll always tell you, “He just had that certain something…”  And the reason they can’t put their finger on it is because it’s an instinct. Something they feel deep down inside.

Why Do Pick Up Methods Fail?

If you’ve ever gone out to meet women, and tried all the “methods” and “systems” and gotten nowhere, then you know what I’m talking about.

Did you get ripped off? Are all these lines and tips and tricks bullshit?

Yes and no.

You see, a lot of guys are inexperienced when it comes to picking up women, and they really do need things to say. They have “brain freeze” or “approach anxiety” because they simply don’t know what to talk about with a girl they want to meet. And pick up manuals give you lots of stuff to talk to women about.

And I understand that. Having something to say is a key ingredient in spurring that attraction instinct.

Because the Master Technique is simply engaging a woman in conversation. Period.

But somewhere – early – in that conversation, you want her to instinctively feel attracted to you.

And here’s where most men fail.

They come from the opposite mindset of what it takes to have a woman feel that attraction instinct.

Trying to impress her, hoping she will like you, giving her compliments and pre-qualifying her based on her looks sets you for failure and disaster.

Women who don’t feel attraction for you cannot be convinced to feel it. You can’t become her friend and hang around and hang around, continually showing her how nice and fun you are in the hopes that she’ll one day realize that you are a great catch – and all the “assholes” she’s sleeping with are bad for her.

Not going happen.

So stop it, now.

How to Turn it Around

The single most important thing you can do is get your Attitude straight. The proper mindset and attitude is what makes everything work. All the lines and techniques you’ve been learning will all work just fine if you are the type of man that women are attracted to instinctively.

The Dating Attitude is what makes everything else work.

Because without the attitude, nothing works.

When you know the secrets and basics of being a Man, and you become that man, it will show in everything you say and do. She will be attracted to you because she can’t help it. And when that happens, you can talk to a woman about aluminum cans and have more success than anyone armed with a how-to method.

It took me a long time to figure this all out. You don’t have to spend 100s and 1000s of dollars on program after program trying to learn how to trick women into being with you.

First – even if you are able to slide by on some bullshit, you will quickly be discovered and be unable to keep the woman you are working on.

Second – Everything you need is within you right now, as you read this. Check between your legs – you got the gear? Good. That means you were born a Man and are already 90 percent of the way toward having all the women you want and can handle.

You just have to let your inner-Man out.

The right attitude and mindset is like a volcano, just below the surface. It’s deep down inside, bubbling and brewing and boiling over. And just as quickly as a volcanic eruption you can let it out. It doesn’t take years. It just takes one attitude changing moment.

Ask yourself:

• Do you consistently end up in the friend zone with women?
• Do you see women you want to be with sleeping with other men you think are bad for her?
• Do you constantly take women on dates, pay for everything, and wonder if you’ll even get a kiss?
• Have you tried methods and systems, and tricks and tips but they seem awkward or unnatural?
• When you see a woman you want to meet, do you think, “how can I get her to like me?”
• Have you sat on the sidelines, hoping a woman you are attracted to will notice you and approach you?
• Have you resulted to pay-to-play online dating services because you just can’t seem to meet women?
• Do you think that somehow, someway the girl of your dreams will find you?
• When you get a date, do you consider it “getting lucky”?

The reason I ask, is because these mindsets are all the opposite of what you should be thinking and doing. And the right attitude isn’t that hard to get. Like I said, it’s already inside you. You just have to let it.

The Dating Attitude

In my book the Dating Attitude, I break it all down for you and explain how to be the kind of Man women instinctively want. Remember – women can’t help if they are attracted to a man, and they can’t help if they aren’t. And there is no amount of “can’t-miss” methods that are going to change 1000’s of years of evolutionary instincts to get her to fall for you.

So all you need to do is just tap into that existing instinct and chemistry that women are born with and are “looking” for.

Have you ever seen what we call a “natural” with women?

These guys always seem to know what to say, what to wear, how to act, and they always have women at their disposal.

And you know what? They make up that small percentage of men that are sleeping with 90 percent of the women.

It doesn’t matter how hot or successful a woman is – if she is female, she will be instinctively attracted to the right kind of Man.

Inside The Dating Attitude eBbook you’ll find out what this kind of man is. Every chapter contains simple, easy-to-follow guidelines to that will transform you into the type of Man who attracts women with no effort at all.

That's right, women will come to you, and stay until you cut them loose.

Included is the infamous "Man List"  she doesn't want you to know about. You'll be becoming an alpha-male and she'll be under your control.

The Book and the Website

I want you to get it now while it's $24.95.  Check out the eBook previews on my website: www.ModernMaleLifestyle.com.  

The site is full of all kinds of other tips and tricks you can use once you have the attitude. There’s health and fitness articles, and sex and love columns by my gorgeous experts. It’s all free. And get a copy of the Dating Attitude. It’s available for immediate download as an eBook. So there’s no shipping, no waiting. Start reading it now in your own home, and start getting the mindset and attitude of the Man women are attracted to.

It’s full of a lot of those tips and tricks, too. Conversation starters and strategies that work when combined with the mindset of the Man.

Hey – 5 percent of the men are sleeping with 90 percent of the women. Get in that 10 percent now.

Til next time – all the best.

Live the Lifestyle.

JD