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Hey Gents -
As you know from previous newsletters - one of our favorite things to do over at the Modern Male Lifestyle is survey women. And ask them questions....(there's a joke in there...stick with me here..)
This time around I'm going to share some of the results we got from 153 beautiful women from all walks of life as they responded to our questions about escalating on a date. Or, translation: How to go from dinner to the bedroom.
Now, if you've been paying attention and you have all the skills we teach in our audio programs like, The Perfect Date Series, Total Control, and Get the Attitude, you are getting lots of numbers, dates and girlfriends. So we're going to offer up some of those little details you may need - or you are simply like most men and want to know what the hell women are thinking.
And I can tell you this much - women are always thinking, "Alpha Male". And they can't help it. It's instinctual and it's evolutionary.
Women hate weakness in men, and by definition, they hate Beta Males. Well, hate is strong word - sometimes they do love Beta Males - as Friends. But you and I both know that being Alpha is the key to having women do all the work - as in working to get YOU, and not the other way around.
In less than 10 days, I'll be unleashing my brand new audio program The Alpha Life Master Series.
 It is easily the most comprehensive and most exhaustive study you'll ever find on the subject. And if you've been bouncing around the web looking at all those so-called "alpha" programs out there, you know they all fall short. And if you don't know, I'll tell you. Because i've researched over a dozen of them so far and the big let down is this: there's absolutely no practical information on any of them.
They give you information like, "An Alpha loves his life" and then they don't follow up with ANY examples, techniques or information on how to GET YOU THERE.
What good is general information like, "An Alpha Values Himself" if you aren't taught HOW to do this? If you can't show it, how will anybody else know?
And that's where I come in. You know by know that MY programs are all full of practical ideas, real-life experiences, step-by-step guides and EXACT instructions on how to do everything we aim to teach you.
Seriously - one program by this guy named Carlos says: "You have to like yourself. Girls love guys who like themselves. Okay, next alpha item....." and the reader is left there hanging, like, "Um, yeah, I KNOW that dude. Exactly HOW am I supposed to do that?"
Frustrating, isn't it?
Truth is - with almost all these guys out there, they don't have any REAL experience with women. They don't have years and years of trial and error, field experience, 100's of girlfriends or even any friends who are good with women. They speak in general terms and in theories that they haven't even tried. Trust me - I know some of these guys, I know their material, and i know this shit inside and out.
Before I get way off on a tangent here - just let me say that I can't wait to get my new Alpha Life Master Series program released. It's in the final stages of production and will be out soon. Look for the announcement in this newsletter and check online at Modern Male Lifestyle.
All my readers will get a special introductory discount. And this program is the shit. I cover over 30 Alpha Characteristics you need to have, and can implement fast. I list all the Beta traits you need to eliminate and avoid. We get detailed about the exact moves and techniques you can start to employ right away. I go into detail about how to set up your house or apartment, your style, your body language, your mindset, you attitude, your voice - everything.
All of the material is cultivated from my personal coaching sessions that have transformed men into stunning examples of the true Alpha Male.
 Now, on to those survey results. Here's some great stuff we found this time around.
MML: What's a good strategy to move from dinner to a more intimate setting?
61% said: Find a natural sequel to dinner. Seducing a woman requires ratcheting up the intimacy in stages, not jumping from burritos to boners. After you've broken the ice -- over drinks, appetizers -- it's time for the main event.
"That's when physical intimacy comes into play," said one women. "We really do go on a date or meet up with a guy to see if we feel sexually compatible with him. So find someplace intimate. "It's like a chemistry lab - it'shard to test your compatibility in a place like Starbucks that's so bright, loud, and corporate." What they liked the most - brush her hand. See if it's warm. Then, guide her by putting your palm on the small of her back - if should returns the favor within 3 minutes it's time move this thing forward.
MML: Should a man come right out and ask you back to his place or be more covert about it?
58% said: Let's take it one step at a time. While directing her with honesty can be refreshing, with most women a straightforward move like that can backfire. "If he says, 'I want you to come back to my place,' it's understood that I'm coming back to be intimate with him," said one 28-year-old woman. Another, in her 30's, said,. "That might work with some women, but I see it as a turnoff." She added, "But if he invites me up for a drink, or to listen to music, I can feel out the vibe. Mostly he needs to prove himself before I decide I'm going to get physical."
Most women will want to go into your place with you, you just have to give them an excuse - ANY excuse that isn't "Let's go in and do it." They KNOW that's why they are going in - or at least that it's a possibility - they just don't want to feel like a slut (at least not yet) and "music" or whatever gives them that rationalization to go in and then be "swept away".
MML: In a guys' place - what's the most important room in the house?
87% said: The cleanliness of your bathroom is TOP priority. "Once I'm at his house, I'm 80% of the way to sex already," says one 22-year-old woman surveyed, "unless his bathroom is nasty, then the deal is off. I don't even know why...it just is!." "You should clean it before I get there" said another. .
MML: Inside a guy's place - what's the best time to make a "move"?
70% said: Let me have a chance to talk and relax first. Only 19 percent of the women we talked to said they'd like your first move to be a spontaneous peck at the bar, at the restaurant, or even on your front steps. And "if you kiss me as soon as we walk in the door, you'll make me feel sleazy," says one woman. Give 'em some music and wait at least 15 minutes. But - most women warned - don't wait over 30 minutes, or we're leaving.
Get this! - a majority of women said even if you make the move at the wrong time, as long as you are aware and acknowledge that, "That probably wasn't the best time to attack you...where are my manners?" she is up for another round if you reload and come in again slower.
MML: Heavy makeout sessions turn into naked bodies when....?
57% said: Pay attention to HER passion levels. We already know most men have no problem going further at any point - but not all women are like this. If her kisses get firmer, escalate. If her hands go under your shirt, you do the same to her. Bascially, follow your woman's comfort level as you guide her toward sex. Let her feel as if she is in control - because once she is naked, she will be out of control and you are driving from there.
MML: Are you going to rip my clothes off - and should we rip yours off, too?
74% said: Help each other disrobe. If a woman ends up naked too quickly, she suddenly feels wierd - uncomfortable. Use the quid pro quo approach. You are both "vulnerable" that way.
MML: How important is that "first time"?
 Most women said take it slow and make her feel special. Save the 40 positons, toys and lotions for next time. She doesn't need to orgasm that first time - and she may not because SHE is so nervous about HER performance. So just "get it out of the way" most said. So relax.
There's another bit of knowledge we walked away from in this survey - and that is what women want you to say the morning after (or before they leave, whenever it is). In short, just tell them that you want to see them again soon. Even if they don't want to see you again, they want to hear it. Crazy creatures these women, eh? So what's the harm in telling them that? Maybe YOU don't want to see her again, too. It's your call, Romeo. But like we said, we're just letting you know what women think. Because THEY certainly don't tell you.
We have literally TONS of survey results, tapes, papers....stuff we haven't even plowed through yet. And hey, the best part is going out and talking to ALL THESE Women!
You should do the same.
If you are having any trouble whatsoever with that - or any area of your dating life - give me a call.
If you haven't seen our Coaching Page yet at Modern Male Lifestyle, you should get over there and see the new packages we have to offer. Everything is customizeable for you and your situation. I've helped 1000's of men, and I can help you too.
And see our new Audio Store and preview all of our great programs HERE.
Till next time,
Live the lifestyle
J.D.
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