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JD, Your Alpha Life Volume 1 and 2 are awesome, simple yet effective. Everything covered there is absolutely essential. At first glance it might be easy to pick little things and say, "well that's not going to matter"..... Wrong... You need to listen to the programs like 10 times or more if you have a hard head. Commit the whole thing to memory if you can.. lol..... I guarantee these 2 programs alone will change your life. Robert
Hi Jd, I have listened to Pick up Lines and Alpha 1 and 2 several times already and it is a priceless investment.The best money I ever spent. Your knowledge and understanding of women is incredible and once again than you so much for helping me out with these brilliant audios. Please keep me updated with anything new that you bring out,and thanks again for everything, Your friend and student, N. Levy
Hey JD!
I have Alpha audio 1. regarding the content, what I have heard so far is excellent. Just as importantly, the way you talk on the audio, the vibe you give there is totally alpha, my friend.
I'll send you more thoughts on the audios once I've addressed the sound issue and listened to them completely.
-MS
Hey JD, I am your biggest fan in South Africa! I just ordered The Art of the Pick Up Line - And so you know, Total Control I have listened to dozens of times and keep learning new things.
Many thanks-you have given me so much confidence with your spectacular audios, - Neil L. South Africa
JD-excellent work on the Total Control audios. Thanks for the examples of driving the car and card and the deck. I usually have women approach me just from my looks and how I carry myself, which you talk about. So when they approach me and if I care or be nice they will go away unless I act like you said in how will they fit into my life? Sometimes I learned these things long time ago but I forget. Your cd's JD are excellent reminders for me.
I am very much interested in how you interact with women at the get go, with some more examples of requests you don't hear of or seldom do hear with other people. I hate doing what most people do and do the opposite. I'm sure you JD, being in a band have many women approach you as the perks of the part. I would very much like to hear any tidbits you could offer on that end as well. I like the directness you speak about and sometimes your examples are just what I needed when I want to let the women know right from the beginning to treat me right and no bs allowed.
- Herman
JD, The Alpha Life Volume 1 is fucking sweet. I just finished it. It is no nonsense common sense stuff, maybe to some ... but usually you are not exposed to it all at once in one neat package. Brilliant.... Hey, use the send me the Alpha Life Volume 2. Thanks... Robert D.
I've just been reading through The Dating Attitude eBook again - Anyways, i gotta' say, this is some really eye-opening stuff. I love it - This book has given me the belief that anything is possible for me when it come's to women as long as i'm brave and take the steps needed.
Liam J
“I decided to get some dating coaching, not really hoping for much, but I was in for a huge surprise. The teaching was great, the advice spot on, and the tips were invaluable. My life was changed for the better and I owe it all to J.D. and his programs. ”
- Cal Preston, NY
“J.D. Knows his shit.. After taking coaching from him I was able to do things I was never able to do. I just didn't 'get it' until he helped me.”
- Scottie G., Bass Player, Atlanta GA
“I used to be shy around girls - not know how to start conversations, etc., until J.D. helped me to build the skills step by step. It was easier than I thought, and just took a little direction."
Andy N., IL
“The Modern Male Lifestyle coaches found my inner game and brought it to the surface. My self esteem sucked. I didn't think I deserved "hot" girls. After 6 coaching sessions, I was suddently overcoming my obstacles, and I realized I could go after ANY girl. I forget about rejection and just think about the successes. This is a life skill that they teach at Modern Male Lifestyle.”
- Kevin K, Sales Rep, WA
"Jd's tactics are priceless! I can say, with conviction, that his coaching has affected everything in my life including work, school, friends, and even family."
- Todd "toad" M. - Las Vegas
"Whatever confidence I lacked, J.D. really brought it out. I mean he really expanded my dating world to the point that I can go up to anybody - even the most gorgeous women - and create a great conversation, sexual tension, attraction.... He taught me that it’s not about what you say but how you say it. I'm writing to say that if you follow JD's guidelines and you will start to get the response from women you want. I took me 5 one hour sessions to get to the poin that I get hit on now. Problems with confidence, problems with women, and having trouble getting a date - I say learn from The Modern Male Lifestyle and they’ll show you exactly how to do it. MML taught me the ropes."
Hey man, this is JB (i've been in the chatroom under JB and Joshua). I have listened to and have read all your material. I got your products through your website. I wanted to say thank you for your hard work and dedication to this art and science we call seduction. As I stated last night, I have listened to or read most of the BS out there. You are very much on the right path and right on with everything. From what I have seen most of these so called "gurus" are on the net blogging or have their crew telling others about how great they are. None of their stuff worked for me. You brought amazing and real results. I totally have respect for you.
Thanks again - Joshua
After one coaching session I employed JD's tactics right away. What a change - I can't believe how much more I understand these women, but how much more the are digging the crap out of me! I'm writing now just to let everyone know that JD knows his game - and if he helped me, he can help anyone! Thanks JD for what you do.
- Pete McQuain - MA
I've been reading The Dating Attitude for two days and this thing is like the bible of datingl. I've learned more since I discovered you than I have from all the other men in my life who have tried to help me. My dad's advice was shit, friends, uncles, brothers - none of them know anything like you've taught me in this short time, You are a great man, and may your sons grow to be great men like you.
- Allan M. - PA
J.D. - the Total Control "move" works! I was skeptical because I've tried so many of those so-called PUA programs, and none of it seemed to change much about my life and my femail situations. Your audio program Total Control is the best thing I've ever experienced on the subject - it has totally changed my life. You really can get women to do things FOR you instead of bitching at you to do shit for them! Thank you. - Jackson - MI
I have to say that JD Dallas at Modern Male Lifestyle speaks the truth on the subject of women and dating - something that is rare these days. My coaching sessions were mind-opening and life-changing. I keep The Dating Attitude (JD's book) close at hand at all times.
All the best - Fran Jessup - IO
Hello J.D., Thank you for contacting me recently.
I have also been reviewing what other so-called gurus and pua's have to offer for a few years now.
One of those people was David DeAngelo. I had ordered a couple of his products before and I thought they were over priced, but I took the chance anyway. Most of the stuff he sells involves a lot of interesting theory, but the real life applications did not work very well for my situation.
The last product I bought from him, in my opinion, was totally worthless. When I emailed him about my dissatisfaction and asked for my money back, he demonstrated what a phony he is. He advertised on his site that his products come with a "30 day, no questions asked, money back guarantee."
Not only did he refuse to refund my money, but also insulted me at the same time. His money back guarantee is not worth the cyber-bits it's printed with. The name of the product that I was dissatisfied with was entitled, "On Being A Man!"
I found this to be quite ironic and maybe I'm just a little old fashioned, but I was brought up to believe that a "REAL MAN" honors his word and makes good on his promises. I immediately sent him a nasty-gram and had my name removed from his mailing list.
I have ordered some of Gary' Brodsky’s stuff in the past and found it to be a lot more useful than the other pretender's materials. Gary doesn't waste words or time on advice that doesn't work. There are a lot of good people in the seduction community giving out good advice, but David Deangelo is not one of them.
I just felt that I had to write and say thanks to all of you. You are doing good things, please keep it up. And by the way, contrary to what he may say on his CD's, I found Gary to be an honorable gentleman and not a "prick" at all.
Sincerely, Paul aka: "PawBiker"
Mr. Dallas Thanks so much JD, I do appreciate it and keep up the good work (pass that on to Gary too), your products do work better than anything I've tried thus far... I am hearing impaired - and attitude doesn't require that you be a marvelous conversationalist and so much of communication is not verbal, but, w/the hearing issue and me I 'really' have to know what to say to get women in bed in the fewest amount of words that pack the biggest bang (no pun intended, well maybe a little).
Since your approach isn't about telling great jokes, or doing magic tricks, or having the perfect pickup lines, and you seem to focus a lot on attitude and not verbal communication you and Gary provide me with a product that is almost custom designed to help me get around my problem with hearing....
- (name and address witheld by request)
To the Folks At MML - Thank you for the Perfect Date Audio - the new dating "strategy" is brilliant. I get more numbers, more dates and spend less money than ever in my life. You guys are brilliant. - Louis McIntyre - GA
JD I can't believe what a sucker I was! Spending money on date after date - or wasting hours a day sitting at a bar hoping to get a phone number (or for the bartender chick to hit on me). Your material has changed my life - honestly I can say that. I've dabbled in a few other guy's "programs" but your stuff is 100 times more succinct, to the point and tough. It works. It has worked for me and I know it can work for others too. Some of your techniques are so simple yet I never would've thought of them on my own. I was so naive! What you say is true - society is breeding generations of men who have no idea how to meet and date women anymore. I was one of them...until now! Take care -
- Ian Bridle- UK
Hi JD. I agree with you on many points about dating women/picking up women. And usually..I am my own worst enemy. To his fans/readers - What really sticks in my head about JD...is the approach. Not to get all worked up when approaching the woman and trying to "impress her". I ask myself.."will I like her" or "will I get along with her." Instead of giving her the power...I empower myself..not emasculating myself with fear. I tried what you spoke of previously....walking up to a woman...looking at her from head to toe...then toe to head...and saying Hey I'm checking you out...while using th eye contact and smiling. When I had a question about women, JD was right on the money. The more I try to approach women ( and I get rejected)....the more it doesnt bother me....the more confident I am. I can honestly see myself more comfortable with women now that say like 6 months ago. Now....I will walk straight up to them...just make up something to say( even something stupid,trivial)....yeah...to build confidence...but because I love to talk to women. You know their soft, sweet voice, etc. I love it.Thanks JD for your support.
- Lou Enfield, Ct.
JD - I'm halfway though your book - I honestly know this book has taught me more than my father has taught me about life so far and he is very successfull. (he owns a hotel and properties and he came to this country from Pakistan without an education) But, anyway - so my family got all screwed up after i went to prison at 18 years old for some huge police chase i was in. JD I used to sell "stuff" and I used to make big money as a teen but still I only had many male friends and had a couple lucky hookups (not full blown sex) as an ignorant fool. J D they sentenced me to 30 months in prison as an18 year old kid and i did the whole fucking bid without getting raped lol. keep in mind i weigh 135 pounds.
I got out of prison clueless, had to start life over, speak 2 my old friends once is a while, don't hang with them due to the fact they are junkies. i got out 8 months ago, i worked at a hotel for 6 months straight and bought a 7 series BMW, was trying 2 figure out how to become popular and get pussy, so so far after 8 months of a lot of stressing, i got 2 hand-jobs, which were lacking major game, I found you on youtube by mistake, , but then u sent me your book and this shit has been like the holy grail for the past 2 days.
2day i went to the club talked 2 a few girls and got rejected like 5 times on the dance floor by classy white bitches, my buddy Oscar was stressed out just standing alone dancing, every fukn time i try 2 explain the game 2 him he gets pissed at me and gets confused. whatever forget him but i just wanted 2 let you know the way you explain this belief system and whatnot in the book is perfect. When I do become high on the social ladder for my new LEGAL status, i wont forget you - im going to keep reading your book, you, have been my best friend so far in my life and best teacher and really, if it weren't for you, i would still be stuck trying 2 figure dumb shit out. - Imran
Hey J D Just had to drop you a note about some of my happenings from last week to now 3:30 pm Fri. Spent some time the last week with the girl that I told you I went to Vegas with in Feb. If it were not for you, I would not have been able to "climb out from under the rubble brushing off the dust unaffected"!! Talk to you about it on Monday. Thanks for everything - Danny.
“JD – I’ve been struggling for so long with the concept of “alpha male” – it seems the more I’ve tried to read about it, the more confused I got. There is so much conflicting information out there – and even when I find something I think I can use, there’s never any real advice on how to “DO” this stuff. Thanks for breaking this down into a truly listenable, learnable art form. My confidence is growing already, just knowing that I have a path. Send me Volume Two immediately.”
– Peter Lewis, OR
“Mr. Dallas – you are right. I want to be an Alpha Male because that’s who I was born to be. I can’t help it – all men have this instinct. This program is real and practical – you are the man.”
– Eddie S., WA
“Thanks for this program JD. I can’t tell you how much I’ve needed it. Not only do you inspire, you give real moves and mindset I can actually use. Just wanted to let you know I got it, and I love it.”
– name and address withheld
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