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Conversation Technique: The Lost Art of Chatting Her Up

This new Audio will be out by this weekend – we hope! – and will give you all the psychology, conversation ideas, and situational openers you’ll ever need to keep the conversation rolling with any woman.
Okay – ad over. Here’s just a taste of what’s going to be on this audio. I’ll have to type it out for ya…

get asked ALL THE TIME how in the heck do you approach a woman you want to meet who’s in a GROUP of one or more. Most guys just bail and look around for a solitary hottie.
But, you know me - I never let this stop me. In fact, a girl who is with a group is often EASIER to get than a girl who is alone.

If you are thinking, "how is that possible?" then read on…

I will illustrate this by telling a story about a girl I hooked up with a few nights ago.

I was at a club in my hometown and I spotted a redhead standing at the bar. She was wearing a killer little dress and hanging with a group of women.
Like I said, a lot of men think, "This is an impossible situation -- I shouldn't even bother trying to approach the group."

But of course, Not me.

First thing I did was kind of study them for a minute or two. The rehhead was accompanied by four girls….and it definitely appeared she was the leader – or alpha chick of the group.

An easy way to tell is that it's the one who is doing most of the talking and using the most animated body language. The "loudmouth"

I also identified the Obstacle - Usually a hot girl's group of friends will include one girl who is simply NOT as hot as the rest. Here’s the key info you can use to your advantage - this girl is going to be self-conscious because she is used to being ignored when guys try to approach the hot girls in the group.

Next, it was easy - I walked by them, stopped, and said over my shoulder in the direction of the redhead, "Hey – you guys can help me. Let me ask you: when a guy breaks up with a girl, how long should he wait before he tries to date one of her friends?"
Whenever possible, I try to gesture towards a guy (ANY guy!) across the room. It’s part of the set up, makes it legit.

I’ll reveal why this type of question is the perfect introduction in my new audio – but know that it gets the group of girls interested and talking.

A good opener will keep them from thinking,  "Who is this random guy trying to talk to us?"

What they WILL be thinking is about stuff they want to share about...stuff they can relate to….(you get it?)
So then, I'll step into their group and do two things:

All downhill now…I move into the group and tell the redhead "This will just take a minute cuz I gotta get back to my buddy, but I can tell that you've been in this kind of situation...so how long should he wait?"

You may have heard of the concept of a “time constraint” – more on this in the new audio if you aren’t familiar with it – but the statement above will accomplish it!
I used an old story about how silly and f*cked up their break up was – women love this stuff.
“He really likes this girl but she's a friend of his ex-girlfriend, so it might be a little weird. But he's a cool guy and his girlfriend broke up with him for the dumbest reason..."
This creates a little suspense.

Admit it – YOU wanna know why now, too, don’t you!??!

"Here’s how it went down - he invited his girlfriend to come to his house so he could make dinner, and she asked him if she could use his computer to check her email, and he said 'sure'... but he was still logged into his personal email account, so his girlfriend went ahead and clicked on it and read all his messages. She saw that he was still keeping in touch with his ex-girlfriend…I’ll tell you…more relationships end over email mishaps!”
But there’s more…

The group of chicks had plenty to say about this, and how they could relate, and what a bum my friend was, etc…
But I threw this in –

“Hey, they are still fiends so they talk sometimes. A man CAN have female friends can’t he? And the emails were nothing bad. They were just exchanging messages and saying hello, how's your life going, shit like that."
If you pull this strategy, btw, you’ll have them hanging on your every word. Here’s more…

"So she gets into HIS email, and SHE got really mad! She doesn't want him having contact with girls that he's been with before. So anyway, they had a huge argument. He felt that she had violated his privacy by looking at his emails. What do you girls think?"

There is a really great follow up to keep this conversation going, but…you guessed it…it’ll be in the audio! Hahaha…but you should have enough by now to at least try this one. Let me tell you how it played out…
I asked the Obstacle friend – directly – if she had ever had her email violated, and how she felt or would feel. Gave her some full on attention. Remember, the redhead is the target.

I just went with the conversation, and agreed with almost everything they said, while barely giving red the time of day.

Basically – the tactic is to spend most of your time and attention on the OTHER women, and highlight the least attractive one.

This is totally opposite – as most good dating tactics are – of what most guys do. They either don’t approach a group, or they go up and ignore everyone but the target – a sure ticket to getting shot down by an entire group!
The key now is to slowly shift your attention to the redhead – which I did. I whipped up a little conversation with her, and took her by the hand and lead her to the dance floor, and her friends didn’t try to stop it.
Why? Because they are now MY friends too we've already all "bonded" over a cool CONVERSATION.

Her friends will be in my corner, and help me to hook up with my redhead.

With any relationship discussion, you can paint yourself to be a “good guy” – by agreeing with the women when they make a value statement or judgement about relationships. Hey, I’m the kind of guy these girls WANT their hot friend to be with...not like the other dickweeds who approach her and ignore them!

Moral of the story: You can win over any woman – or women – with a simple CONVERSATION, if you know the right kind. Use the one above – it worked for me (several times). When you play it the right way, the other girls in the group WANT you to spend some "alone time" with the hot one.

Okay guys – that’s it for this newsletter.

Til next time
Live the lifestyle – J.D.